• Natasha Bent, 27, was told she could not light the candles on her son’s birthday cake unless she was ‘supervised’ in a ‘special area’ reserved for such activity

By
Jaya Narain

09:11 EST, 14 May 2012

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19:37 EST, 14 May 2012

No three-year-old’s birthday would be complete without a brightly-coloured cake with candles on top.

But Oscar Barlow was left in tears
when police swooped on his party at a play centre – after staff said his
cake was a health and safety risk.

Bosses at Rumble Tumble play centre
said the candles constituted a safety risk and if the family wanted to
light them they would have to move to a specific area and be monitored
by staff.

Stunned: Natasha Bent, 27, and Oscar, three

Stunned: Natasha Bent, 27, and Oscar, three

Police were called to Oscar's third birthday party at Rumble Tumble play centre in Hanley, Stoke-on-Trent, because his parents lit the candles on his cake in violation of heath and safety regulations

Police were called to Oscar’s third birthday party at Rumble Tumble play centre in Hanley, Stoke-on-Trent, because his parents lit the candles on his cake in violation of heath and safety regulations

After a disagreement, Oscar’s mother
Natasha Bent and her family trooped out into the car park to light the
candles outside instead.

But they were stunned when two police officers arrived at the children’s play centre in Hanley, Stoke-on-Trent.

The children burst into tears as officers spoke to the family over claims they had acted in an intimidating manner.

Last night Miss Bent, 27, insisted
she had not been threatening and claimed they were frustrated by the
health and safety red tape.

Miss Bent said the family decided to visit the play centre after returning from a theme park on Oscar’s birthday last Thursday.

‘When we were there we brought in
Oscar’s birthday cake from the car, but just as we were going to light
the candles they told us we couldn’t.

Play centre: When the family took the cake outside into the car park of Rumble Tumble (pictured) and lit the candles, staff called police

Play centre: When the family took the cake outside into the car park of Rumble Tumble (pictured) and lit the candles, staff called police

‘All we wanted to do was sing Happy Birthday and have Oscar blow out the candles,’ she added.

‘We tried to reason with a staff member but she said we were bullying her and told us to leave, saying she was going to call the police. In the end we went outside and lit the candles in the car park. Oscar and the other children started crying when the police turned up.

‘How on earth would a child get injured by singing Happy Birthday?

‘It was a bad way for a three-year-old to experience a birthday. It’s a special occasion and his first one understanding what a birthday is.

‘I love my son with all my heart and didn’t want other children to have their birthday ruined.’

Her partner David Meir, 32, said: ‘When the police officer told us the staff member had accused us of intimidating her, I just laughed. I had my two sons with me so there’s no way I’d do that in front of them.’

Rumble Tumble declined to comment on the matter. A Staffordshire Police spokesman said: ‘Officers established the dispute was over the level of service received and advice was given to all involved.’

 

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So the police had time to come out to such a trivial matter? – John (too honest be a politician!), Newcastle Upon Tyne, 15/5/2012 9:04

No, they had to come out because they’d received a report of a woman being threatened by a group of aggressive adults who were then refusing to leave. That’s their job.

A complete waste of Police time.

Candles produce smoke so quite right?

Candlesshould not be on cakes on cakes. Just watch You have been framed to see hair, clothing and other items set on fire. I certainly do not wish to have a piec of cake thant has been spit all over it from a child tring to blow out candled.

Some of the police in this country are idiots, they won’t bother going out to help a poor old lady who has been mugged, but they rush out en-mass when it is a PC matter like cake candles, those who did this should be sent back to police school or sacked!

Actually it looks like there were originally 5 candles. In the top picture, there are 4 stuck in the cake and Oscar is holding a fifth candle! the plot thickens!

The parents were idiots for getting aggravated, the police were idiots for responding, the staff were idiots for whining and making a fuss about a few tiny candles. The whole lot of ‘em need a thorough shaking.

If someone had been being robbed or beaten up the police would not have bothered turning up. What about priorities!

When does it close down due to stupid staff?

To all those asking why 4 candles (fork handles??) I always thought its the age plus one for luck

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